Sunday, July 29, 2012

He is A Person Too

This post is just a little about my opinions on loving your fiance/husband.

I feel that with society the way it is or is headed, the male population gets a bad rap. 
Woman are never satisfied. I believe that is because most of us have such high standards on how a man should be. But, what happens when we find that man? 

I still see desperation in wanting more from the man who already gives you everything.
I am guilty of this myself, so I have to spend time reminding myself of what I was blessed with.
You have to remember that a man is also a person. He has feelings, that he was raised to hide or they would cause shame and humiliation. They may be better at hiding their emotions, but they are there.

I feel that since men can't or don't feel comfortable sharing those emotions with the one they are closest with, they will find another outlet that is easier to cope with. Yes, sometimes this means the worst. Whether it means they cheat, start gambling, hiding money, becoming alcoholics, doing drugs or even disconnecting himself completely from the world around him.

This is when he needs you the most. 

Don't make your partner in life feel less of a man because he cries hear and there. Listen to him. We all know us woman love to counsel and talk, but just stay quiet and really listen to what is going on with him. We want that from him, so it's only right to give in return. Don't ever go out of your way to make him feel less of a man. If anything, you want a man who relies on you for emotional support. (I am not saying to the extreme here, if he is emotional 24/7 something probably isn't right either.)

You are in this life together. You need to build a strong bond between the two of you to have a successful relationship. No, this does not mean that everything is going to be easy, but if you have that special bond when you begin your journey together, those hard times will pass.

Just a little insight for the day <3

"Lean on each other's strengths, forgive each other's weaknesses." - Unknown

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